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Tags: Climate, Justice, Juvenile, Luzerne, School, Zero-Tolerance
I am a concerned mom in Luzerne County. Our school district uses the "NO TOLERANCE" standard. I am not an advocate for this standard. My son is 7 years old and last year when he was 6, he was pushing children on the playground. He would always come home saying it was not on purpose. As a parent, no one wants to believe their child is the "trouble maker" and my son didn't act like that at home. The school decided to have their police officer speak to my son, without my husband's or mine consent or knowledge. My son came home crying, and saying he was going to be arrested. He said the police officer said things that scared him. My son is still very afraid of police. He admits if he gets lost, he will not go to a police officer. The school could not show us their policy on scarring younger children with police. Since last year, we have found out my son has a visual problem and has poor depth perception. Some things that happen are not always black and white. I think that our district forgets that children "NEED" to learn how to resolve their conflicts, not be separated or singled out in front of their peers. These are life lessons. My son lived first grade being singled out and in trouble all the time. Knowing how to deal with people is a life lesson. He lacks self esteem and confidence and his teacher this year is working hard at trying to rebuild these. The no tolerance does not teach these children how to work out problems, it teaches them to run from them. Teachers need to teach. It is easier to punish and alienate these children and run them out of the school then do the job of showing these children that problems can be solved. Some problems are organic and not just pure behavior. Maybe not all of them will be the best of friends, but in life, we all know people we don't like or get along with at work or in our families or circle of friends, but we know how to be civil and get along. (usually) I don't think the NO TOLERANCE should be allowed in the schools at all. It is a lazy way to deal with children who may need extra help. I hope their are people who agree with me.
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